Dear Reader,"When it gets tough, I get going. I can make it through anything. Whatever the challenge, I'm up for it." That's the little speech I've given myself through the years to get me over the rough spots.And it's true. I am resourceful. I can take a punch, regroup, and bounce back quickly.But I admit there have been times in my life when, even though I was up for the challenge, the rough spots got way too rocky " even for me. And I had to ask someone for help."I need your help." I don't know why those words are …